All loving relationships have the same key ingredients, so learn what it takes to love and feel loved.
- You know how to come together as well as be separate.
- To merge as well as to separate. That means, when you are together, the walls come down and when you go your separate ways, you feel like a whole, complete person.
- Most of us can either do one or the other.
- To be together – to be alone – in a relationship we need to be able to move seamlessly between these two places.
- You support your partner’s dreams even though they are different than your own.
- It is our ego that requires our partner to be like us. What difference does it really make if someone’s dreams are different than ours?
- Remember – it works both ways: If you are supportive and loving, those feelings naturally come back to you.
- It takes real generosity of spirit to selflessly be there for another.
- There is vulnerability – You share your innermost thoughts and fears.
- Without vulnerability there is nothing that touches your soul.
- Vulnerability makes you soft rather than hard; it opens your heart.
- It is an honor to share hidden thoughts and feelings with your partner.
- You walk away rather than attack, wound or criticize.
- When you know another’s “secrets”, you have the power to wound at the deepest level.
- There is nothing worse than to betray this level of confidence.
- When you use intimate thoughts and feelings shared in moments of togetherness as a weapon, you are committing the ultimate act of betrayal.
- You love like there’s no tomorrow - knowing you can’t spoil someone with too much loving.
- Love like a child, “un abandoned,” with no thought of what you will get back.
- When you love with an open heart, you are always okay, regardless of what happens.
- Love is your true nature. When you love, you are in sync with who you truly are.
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