Rushing a decision is never in our best interests but often we fear the unknown and choose a course before the time is right. Do you know that - When you are confused, it is always best to do nothing?
1. Confusion is an incongruity between what you are thinking and what you are feeling. This is what happens when you are confused.
- This incongruity always feels bad and you need to listen to how you are feeling.
- When the heart is telling you one thing and the mind is going in another direction, you will always feel split down the middle.
- Do nothing when you are in this state.
2. Confusion points the way to a new beginning – It will not allow us to take the familiar path. This is good.
- Don’t get scared when you are confused. Perhaps a new direction is on the forefront, one that will be better suited to you.
- Important here is to honor the intellect but more importantly is to honor the heart. Ask yourself, “What am I really feeling?”
- Unless you can deal honestly with what you have at this moment, you can never move to a new place.
3. Sit on the floor and ask yourself. "What am I feeling?"
- It gets you out of your head and back in your body where you can feel.
- Sometimes the energy is so much up in the head, you can no longer feel. Sitting on the floor gets the energy back in your body where it belongs.
- Only by feeling can you get out of confusion.
4. Do not make a decision until everything in you says, “Go!”
- Doing something is NOT better than doing nothing.
- Stop wasting valuable time back-tracking which is what you will have to do if you move forward before you are ready and prepared.
- Feel good, solid and clear before moving forward. Move when EVERYTHING in you says go and not a moment before. This way you are guaranteed success.
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