Everyone knows that "changing" is a good thing, but what does it really mean and how do we go about doing it. Welcome to the art of creating!
1. Take full responsibility for creating your life. Stop blaming others.
- This is the big one and unless you totally get this concept you cannot create a good life for yourself.
- When you do not take full responsibility for your life, you end up in a state of victim consciousness where you have no power.
- Taking responsibility for it all – regardless of why it happened – gives you back your power so that you can create a good life going forward.
2. Change your behavior, don’t just think about it.
- There are many ways you can “understand” something, but understanding something intellectually will never go the distance.
- What you understand in your mind must be integrated on a feeling level and the only way to do that is to put into ACTION what you have realized intellectually.
- If you do not actually change your behavior on the physical plane, to reflect your new understanding, nothing will change.
3. Put discipline in your life and learn to postpone immediate gratification of your needs.
- Talking about changing behavior is easy; actually changing behavior is very difficult.
- We become very anxious when we change behavior even though the old way of doing things has made us miserable.
- You have to be very brave to do it a new way and to bear the anxiety of making a change. If you cannot do this, you will never change.
4. Stop complaining – it’s unattractive.
- The old way is the familiar way, and although it is dysfunctional, we are comfortable doing it because we know how to.
- There is nothing worse than complaining. Just change and be quiet!
- Zip it and step up. No one can do it for you except for you.
5. When you make good choices, you create a good life.
- We create our life moment by moment by the choices we make.
- Every choice builds on the choice before and all these choices strung together create a life.
- If you do not like what you have created, you can make new choices at any time. Over a period of time, by making new choices, you will have a new life.







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